Oh, thats a really good observation. I think that Picky Coworker is one of those types who will demand more and more concessions from LW until she has LW thoroughly buffaloed and walking on eggshells. Sometimes its a subtle smell their bodies give off, sometimes its body odor after a day of work. Exactly this is someone whos enjoying her petty little power trip and bending OP to their will, is how its coming off to me. Some scents are that pervasive. While a coworker may undermine you at work because of any . If that doesn't do it, HR or headphones. ;). Say this to your boss: Ever since Jane mentioned a month ago that a perfume I was wearing bothered her, Ive made a big effort to ensure Im not wearing anything scented around her. The reason to ask someone who doesnt live with you is that we can stop smelling things after a while, so a partner or roommate might not be able to smell it either. 1. Please cut it out.). I was more than willing to not wear perfume and make sure I wasnt wearing any heavily-scented products, but theres a limit. On the plus side, I did learn how to ask for anti-histimine cream and tablets in Spanish. Id start ignoring her as you would when someone enters a room and says, my, I love your rust-colored high-top shoes! You know you are wearing black pumps so certainly no one is talking to you. I had a similar problem with Oreos, which was really sad because I love Oreos. Until I got sick after drinking too much of it (and not eating enough) at an awkward dinner party. If you yell at them to run, theyll tell you youre crazy, rude, whatever. Find out which foods you should watch out for. Its awful. The coworkers rudeness is the problem. There is at least one in every office. It is not a matter of simply not liking something. Ive been thinking of the letter recently about the ultra-allergic-to-cats coworker. update: is my future manager a bigoted jerk? I drank way too much Goldschlager when I was in high school and still cant deal with it! *Hugs* to you. I doubt many people would exaggeratedly sniff their coworker and say ugh, Chanel No. That said, I do have scented shampoo because there are like 3 on the market that are unscented, most of which I cant afford. And please mind that just because the smell isnt actually THERE doesnt mean that for the coworker its not completely there. No. Am I ever going to allow a snitty coworker to invade my life to the extent that I change what I do in my own home on my own time? Its very distracting, and personally I find it disgusting. I guess people who are sensitive to it can smell it long after use. I empathize with those who have trouble controlling their sniffles because sometimes even the best, most consistent health care cant turn off the faucets in your face, and no amount of tissues in the world will ever be enoughbut f*ck is that repeated sound awful. I have found literally one laundry detergent that doesnt make me break out in hives. Or he is ready to take the risk of dating a coworker. We offer this Site AS IS and without any warranties. Either way, OP certainly doesnt want to make matters worse so she probably shouldnt try it! So stop it. But unless were also banning Axe body spray or Febreze from the public sphere (if only), people get to wear whatever scent they like in public even if it annoys some other people. Learn how we can help. Shes done more than is reasonable. Another coworker can have an anaphylactic reaction to some scents. I dont think she does, but I think she does genuinely believe that the OP is still wearing perfume. You seem to have accommodated your coworker but to no avail, so now its time for something different. For me though, I have three cats in a small apartment and I do my best to keep the cat stink under control. I would scrub down after work and still smell like that garlic butter sauce we put on breadsticks and cheesy bread. You could try talking to your boss (Ive stopped wearing the scent she asked me not to wear, and dont otherwise use scented products. They were everywhere. I really feel for you. There could be other causes: AlsoI used (briefly, because I am sensitive to Aluminium) a non-scented deodorant (Toms I think) and after 5 daysit had a smell and that smell was on me. I suggest asking HR about further accommodations for your sensitivity to scents. I would go to HR myself and complain that I am being harassed by a co-worker who in spite of your having ended wearing the perfume that bothered her is waging a campaign of harassment against you. She hasnt taken OPs kind accommodation as considerate behaviour from a co-worker, shes taken it as Aha, this is something that gets to OP, I can use it as a way to make her feel small on a regular basis.. It can be very painful and isolating to have this kind of sensitivity. You did the decent thing by switching up your products when she first complained, and if shes still having a reaction to something, she needs to explore other potential sources (asking for your help in a respectful way if needed). Thats where my confusion is too. . The last few days its been cold, windy and raining. Seconding the thanks! Youre not the only one that has had that thought. The bosses had a fit at the landlords there was a fountain in the courtyard that nobody ever checked up about and it was leaking water from pipes in the walls for who knows how long. Although one important difference was that the LW in that case was the allergic co-workers boss, so they needed to be able to have private conversations some times. Your coworker could merely be bothered, in which case its up to them to get over it. I mentioned to my manager that I was cutting out the one thing I could think of that could be leaving a scent, and so far there hasnt been additional complaints (that I know of). Those are lengths to which I am totally unwilling to go to accommodate someone at work and I feel are things that no one has the right to ask of a coworker. I happen to like scents like patchouli, but it is a strong scent, so perhaps its lingering someplace. There's no need for you to take it any further. I almost did a double take because I could have written this. And if the comments dont stop, then you can legitimately say that you have cut out all scented products and it hasnt changed anything. Its a supervisors job to do that. You are kind co-worker. Also, while I typically have (mild) allergic reactions to fragrances, sometimes non-scented products have ingredients that Im sensitive to. If someone was spraying any form of Febreeze, *I* would go to the Manager. It's his responsibility. Its quite another to pay a bunch of money on things like carpet cleaning, new mattress pad, etc., in the hope that it might appease the coworker. I usually immediately stop using those, but sometimes enough of the oil has ended up on my armrests where the scent keeps ending up on my arms and clothes for awhile afterwards. Unscented my butt. Heh, I actually really hate the smell of Febreeze myself. This. For scent specific examples: Someone using scented shampoo, fine, using so much hairspray, the scent fills the room, not fine, a bit of perfume the average person cant smell unless they are rubbing elbows, fine, a cloud of perfume, not fine. Its not like youre shoving incense sticks up her nostrils. Hopefully your boss can accommodate and move her, or you?? I think the your fist, my nose boundary ends with how close you have to be to smell it and/or normal use. It sounds like your coworker is a drama llama and shes in the wrong. Scent-free initiatives always seem so invasive to me. Thermostat Wars conveys what Im trying to say so much better than I could!! Unfortunately, it made my office mate sneeze, and similarly to your coworker, he was sensitive to it. Suggest management isolate her if living in the world is too much for her once accommodations have already been made and she wont. Several people wrote in to say that . Lets see if we can narrow down where/what it is.. That is what co-worker is complaining about. Im almost positive the perfume and the indie oil scents are one and the same a lot of places sell perfume oils rather than spray perfume, but generally one would just refer to them all as perfume. OP has done everything possible to accommodate them. This isnt coworker having a legitimate problem, this is coworker targeting OP for whatever reason. She likes the idea and often makes it a part of our sexlife. A hot bath, with scented salts and a glass wine after work sounds awful good to me right now. I understand having to accommodate a coworker with an ADA request (although correct me if Im wrong but I believe that would come directly from the company and likely wouldnt require everyone to replace all scented everything they own because that seems like an unreasonable accommodation) but in this case its a coworker who is ceaselessly complaining about the OPS existence rather than her actual scent, based on the steps shes taken. JEREMY SAYS: It's possible, but extremely unlikely, that all this grunting, snorting and nose-picking is done knowingly and specifically with the intention of irritating you. The other day, I was waiting for the elevator and he hurried over, asked me to hold the elevator so he could leave too. But I was situated in front of the AC, I could open windows and office doors to ventilate, we had an air purifier in the office, and he had a fan pointed on him pretty constantly blowing the scent away from him. Most people are more than willing to do reasonable things for their coworkers comfort, but it sounds like the OPs coworker is the type thats totally unreasonable. Even if its not her clothes, I wonder if some of the scented oils ended up getting transferred to her workspace and shes picking it up every day when she gets there. He says patchouli makes him sick and we were staying at a house that used patchouli Landry detergent. I spent the rest of the conference in an anti-histamine induced haze. Talk to your doctor about If the coworker has a legit fragrance sensitivity than she needs to inform her manager and HR. I could not smell it at all but she certainly could. :). If so, that means that in the co-workers mind, the OP is trying to get away with wearing stuff that shes promised to stop wearing, which would explain her being shirty about it. I cant even look at kale now, let alone consume it. Your nose is a faucet, and theres no way to turn it off. So Im pretty inclined to read the comments as coworker being a jerk instead of actually having difficulty working with a smelly coworker. I would also say they need to go to their manager or HR. Agreed. Yes, most modern products are quite the cocktail, so while the scented molecules may be the most noticeable they may not be whats actually eliciting the sensitivity. You've just arrived back at the office from a heavy lunch with your colleague, and from the other side of the cubicle, you hear him let out a loud, obnoxious burp. I was thinking that it might be something like this for the OP. Personally, I dont know why anyone wears it. The OP writes that she wears scents with patchouli on the weekend. Most wearers would recognize such disgust like the OP did and stop wearing it but I can see others loving it so much that they would not give it up. The sense of smell is one of our strongest senses & it can cause strong emotions. Oh man every time I see someone on here who has sniffling as a trigger I feel a little guilty. The office is not fragrance free O had air quality come in. Oh, dear, thats true. She might be unwittingly attributing what she smells to you for the simple reason your scents bothered her. Also, I cant deal with the smell of Febreeze. Some spells last for hours, some all day and some effect me breathing as well as I am constantly sniffling. I had a similar experience with vodka in collegetook my 4-5 years to not start getting queasy at the sight of a bottle. So yeah. Otherwise, Alisons advice is spot on. Allergies. Not sure if she has a medical condition though or she just doesnt wear deodorant/antiperspirant. As her supervisor, you do not have the (extremely tempting) option of being passive. Using Chat for Office Communication. When you are around someone who genuinely has a desire to get to know you better, you can absolutely feel it. If co-worker said that the scented oils give her migraines or make her feel like shes going to vomit, I think thats a different level than just saying I dont like that scent. I think its like color blindness, there must be a receptor that some people have that make them aware of something in the patchouli/patchouli type scents and the wearers arent actually able to detect the same scents. Jerk. Ive bought saline spray (thats the strongest stuff I can use). Im not trying to like, lecture you, but I really think more people should be made aware of just HOW BAD Febreeze is. I think Alison has asked us not to read race into letters because it can become derailing and its all speculation. But doesnt hurt to try, and Alison and others offer great suggestions. Love this anecdote. It drives me up the wall. This could be the co-workers version of thermostat wars. Or, stay home until you feel better. Febreeze offers a scent-free allergen reducer version of the spray, which might be helpful if the OPs coworker actually still has a sensitivity and isnt just being rude. Shame and guilt. I remember being at a conference and requesting that the organizers make some sort of announcement asking people not to spray perfume in the conference areas. this depends largely on the severity of their reaction. It is just normal unscented Sure/Tide/Bounce, though, not natural versions of these like youd find in places like Whole Foods. I had a problem like this a long time (6 years) ago I found it finally went away when I reduced the stress in my life and got treatment from several alternative health practitioners: regular massage, kinesiology and chiropractic treatments and that eventually allowed my body to relax and eventually the sniffing reduced and disappeared. Of course, Im lukewarm on bacon and despise people drowning all other flavours by adding it to everything, and meh about cheese too so I appreciate your feelings. But it can also be something in the building, in the carpet, or any other thing. So, since theres no history of odor-complaints it sounds like Coworker found a bone to pick with LW and will exhaustively harp on any smell coming from her. Ugh, this. It seems like some people in an office environment get a pet Thing To Complain About and lose track of either the importance or the existence of the Thing, sometimes both. I also tend to use unscented deodorant and laundry detergent; I really dislike how chemical-y scented products like this tend to be. The exaggerated sniffing, the pointed remarks about patchouli (which definitely smells NOTHING like lemon)those arent the behaviors of someone who is genuinely trying to solve an unfortunate issue. Sometimes I get a whiff of white vinegar (we used it in the water under the hot trays) or that orange chicken sauce smell and feel grossed out. This may have already been mentioned, but the co-worker said the scent was bothering her. Bothering her as in I dont like that scent or bothering her as in I get debilitating migraines and cannot work due to that scent? There is a big difference. You've been told. Concerns are shared. It is amazing how difficult it can be to shake that incensey smell if you commonly use incense or oils or other such products at home. :(. Use a VPN or SSH Proxy (BEST OPTION): A VPN or SSH tunnel will act as the middleman between your computer and the dubiously secure servers on the internet so that everything sent between your . I think it would be pretty unreasonable for someone whos bothered by it to insist that, for instance, a coworker stop treating their psoriasis appropriately just because of the smell of their shampoo. So shes either exaggerating (because of being a jerk) or to be slightly more charitable shes now got herself into such a state of snittitude that she now genuinely smells patchouli where none exists, e.g., in a mildly lemon-scented body wash. And I can completely relate to her rudeness. I couldnt smell it approaching the rack, but it was very apparent in my home. (Posting this at 12:20 p.m. EDT, so comments before then werent ignoring this; they were just earlier.). Ive tried to explain to my coworker that basically nothing I use is scented anymore, but she makes exaggerated sniffing noises and says things like, Oh, patchouli AGAIN? when I get near her. You might have to visit both specialists to land on the correct diagnosis. They dont have added scent, but a lot of chemicals smell. Which is a good thing to have anyway. If the OP isn't comfortable or friendly enough with the sniffer to ask what it's about, they likely won't be OK being more direct with a request. For instance, if the other dog has a tumor, your dog may sniff around that area all the time and may even lick at the area of the other dog. You can do what you can to not overtly smell of fragrance, but I would be pissed if a coworkers extremely sensitive nose caused my employer to change my lifestyle so drastically outside of work. There are people who believe very strongly in this initiative, so it wouldnt surprise me to encounter that sentiment here or elsewhere. If she says the smell is on your scarf, but you have a new scarf, then Id get a second opinion. I completely agree. It wouldnt make the way she treats the OP any more acceptable but it would at least explain whats happening. Both me and the coworker are white, thank goodness. Because apparently I couldnt resist saying that chicken definitely has at least as much innate flavour as any other meat, just different. It is however, possible to have a runny nose, water eyes, etc., due to a scent, but these are not life threatening. I havent used anything patchouli-scented in weeks/months/whatever! I have sniffels all the time. I dont have any advice, but I am wondering how it is fair or reasonable that the OP should even have to make all of these concessions at her own expense because her coworker wont stop picking on her. Ive used unscented deodorant, detergent and dryer sheets for years since I dont like the chemical scent that tend to be used with these. My massage therapist uses a really nice patchouli blend oil (its the ONLY form of patchouli I like lol) and I can STILL smell it on my clothes I have washed several times since my last massage. If you have a sniffling toddler, youll definitely want to check that a blueberry or a bead didnt magically make its way up a nostril. Yeah, totally, for mention of patchouli above I think you can refer to the Zendaya Giuliana Rancic dreadlocks saga of 2015 for an example on how this can play out. Here are eleven behaviors you absolutely do not need to deal with in a coworker: 1. Anyway, since then the smell is so offensive to me. On that tip, OP, I find oils to be *awful* not only do they stick to fabricate around you, but the scents they carry are so concentrated. But a co-worker? I worked in a department that she visited maybe once a week. Maybe you were sabotaging her diet and it was making her grumpy? I think the OP has already gone above and beyond, but it wouldnt be a bad idea to dot the remaining is and cross the remaining ts (air fresheners at home, in public restrooms, or in the car, dryer sheets, etc. Note to commenters:There have been loads of suggestions below for additional ways the letter-writer could tackle potential scents and stamp them out. Love it! Scent can also be a trigger for good or bad memories. Oh college lol. often benign and usually treatable, Dr. Reisman says. She may be grossed out for real, but the fragrance allegedly emanating from the LW isnt actually emanating, theres nothing they can do about it, and the coworker needs to lay off. But its not just adjustingits spending a fair whack of money on new products, an expense that can be a considerable burden at some income levels. Your boss took this seriously the first time. Just dont what? Is your nose running a marathon? And that is what this is. Should we go talk to (manager) or HR together and resolve this once and for all?. My conditions have all been verified by multiple doctors and specialists.). Curiously enough, the first symptom I get is irritability, and my fight or flight response kicks in. For about a week, it was great! It doesnt make sense that OP needs to suddenly cut out all shampoo and all bath products when seemingly everyone else can use them without judgement, including us. Im guessing no, otherwise the coworker would have an office reputation for being sensitive. At this point, the coworker really needs to be talking with her boss or HR to figure something out. My friend actually did his dissertation on this topic. I dont have smell sensitivities, and I have a terrible sense of smell, and febreeze unscented gives me migraines. (Thanks a lot, weather.). Yeah, youre not alone in wondering this. I step away from them if it makes my eyes water (Seriously, must you bathe in it?? To me, the onus on coworkers to alter their scent behavior ends at requiring them to change their personal care products. Then talk to the coworker pretty directly, too. . If this is the case and I were the OP, Id be inclined to tell a coworker that Ive done what I can, and unfortunately the scent-sensitive among us have to find a way to deal with the fact that there are unpleasant smells in this world. I agree! If her scent doesnt bother you then maybe you can try it out and if you dont mind it, then theres no way for her to complain. Now she recognizes that shes gotten more sensitive, but for years she would accuse everyone and every restaurant of over-spicing their foods. But frankly, you shouldnt be expected to cut something you enjoy out of your life entirely just because it annoys her. Your nose can react to irritants that arent known allergens, Dr. Reisman says. True, but even the boss shouldnt be expected to get dressed in the garage. Because some people never mature past middle school, apparently. Im not allergic, but it just has such a terrible chemical smell that just lingers forever if my coworker wanted to get rid of me, spraying my stuff with Febreeze would do it! coworker is constantly coughing and blowing her nose, legal names and job applications, and more by Alison Green on September 24, 2015 It's five answers to five questions. To cap it off, she has started picking her nose quite explicitly. Now its up to the co-worker to prove its not a case of singling her out. Mom is a total grown up hippie though. I had to have an accommodation that I was warned early enough to take PTO for the day of and the day after, and that it HAD to be approved at no penalty to me, because I just could not be there. Thats a good point. People cant go through life expecting to never have to encounter faint scents. Your co-worker sounds like shes being a bit difficult and imposing unrealistic expectations on the OP. Which also reinforces my belief that your coworker can go walk off a pier. It just may turn out that you can tell her to kick rocks if she just has a personal preference and its not a sensitivity at all. But scent contamination can come from many things, often small things. Almost everyone I know who wears that kind of scent is white, and I really hope that OP is, too. I worked in a lab, and pretty much every chemical we used suddenly smelled like fish, vomit or both to me. (It just fell in! But talk to your Dr. That could be the diagnoses. Colleagues If you have a colleague who burps or sniffs excessively, the easiest approach is to tell her you find it offensive or unsanitary and, in the case of loud burping, do not consider it humorous. STOP WEARING THE ESSENTIAL OILS. I dont have anything new/useful to add, but it sounds like youve gone above and beyond to accommodate your coworker. Okay, what??? It was Jack Daniels for me. Agree. yup, havent eaten bananas since I was about 5. I just get so anxious about it that I smell phantom pee. But to negatively comment about any group is . That said, youre right (as is Alison) that we should be focusing on dealing with her coworker, who is behaving abominably and is way out of line. Any chance it could be a shampoo/conditioner/other hair product? Brownie batter? Even if she still can smell something on you that youre not noticing, shes not bringing it up in a productive way at all exaggerated sniffing and snarky comments are not helping anything! But this sounds like a specific attack on the OP for some reason. It just seems to cross a boundary of reasonableness. I am on a small anti-anxiety med now and it has made a difference. Take action to lessen the importance of your achievements or how you realized4 your accomplishments. Its like take the LW at their word doesnt apply to fragrance-based letters or something. Fab. In New Orleans, Atlanta, and D.C., Ive seen Black women steadily outnumber white women when it comes to indie oils. Which is to say that I think it might be more widespread than folks realize. OK, you are unlikely to see this, but I *love* chicken. I ask because I frequently buy my childs clothes at consignment sales, and I have to wash some of them multiple times because they were infused with some kind of scent like that. I get it, scent sensitivities are no joke, and I am more than willing to do what I can make the office space as pleasant as possible, but wheres the line on what you can and cant use in your personal life because it might bother someone somewhere if you step out your front door? But that requires A: Absolutely believing the coworker that they smell something, and convincing them you believe them and realio trulio WANT to get to the bottom of this. Agreed. And people tend to become immune to the smell of their own parfume so they wear much more than they need to..which is essentially overkill and obnoxious to everyone around them. It was something I was putting in every wash, and I had been unconsciously upping the amount of vinegar over time. At that point, I think the OP can justifiably say that shes done what she can do, and if further accommodations are needed, the coworker needs to sort that out with their employer, not with OP. You see the salesmen on the metro who wear little vials of oil on these cross-body belts. Meanwhile I agree that its time to tell Coworker to stop. There is an FREE (unscented) Febreeze for fabrics. . Im hoping it doesnt escalate to that point, but Im glad youre out of that situation now! Coworker is being bratty and mean in a way that suggests she feels helpless (so, bullying but thinks she is the victim), and your suggestions were right on target for that aspect of the situation. Most sprays today dont even qualify for the technical definition of eau de parfum. Bring the complainer to her house to show that there are no more scented products? (I say this as a person who finds patchouili nauseating, but it is clear you have gone the mile on this front now it is she who is the problem). Something like jeopardy would trigger a kind of nervousness. Its my personal opinion. I even bought new clothes. Alisons suggested actions make it clear that OP has reached the end of their ability to help and puts it in Coworker and Bosss court. I am 30 years old and I have been told that I sniff constently in my sleep. I wish this was more helpful to the OP. But I also think it can be Pavlovian, where you see the person you identify with a scent and smell it, even if theres no actual scent around you. Time to go on the offensive here. It doesnt help with co-worker, but since what co-worker is doing can be utterly crazy making and gaslighting feeling, I hope it helps you see how it could be just her. Yes, this. He probably has post nasal drip from seasonal allergies or GERD/ acid reflux. Oh absolutely, Id figure thats part of the process, but it could still help get rid of some smells, assuming the vinegar smell washes out after . Haha, Im not sure if this is a good idea, but I love it. Yes Tom Ford has a fragrance called White Patchouli that I refer to as my rich hippie perfume. Theyre going to keep pushing and pushing until either they 100% get their way, or the person accommodating them says no, Ive done enough for you, thats all your getting., For the record, I love the phrase go pound sand. I dont think this is a race thing. I do have patchouli-scented perfumes, but nothing like body wash, incense or diffusers. I do think at that point she would need to differentiate between something merely existing and something being a problem, though. You have a meeting. :(, Oh, I totally agree. You could even put a few around the office so it looks like it was an office admin that did it. You have a slimy feeling after talking with them. 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